Thursday, November 22, 2012

Advice

Some people can't take advice, they swear their going to change and work on it and they don't. A lot of people have this problem including me, I am stubborn and I don't always take peoples advice, but when they give it to me I try and listen to it for example someone tells me they dislike something that I do, I'll try to fix it to try and make people like me more, or if someone says to try and lead someone in a certain direction I may not agree at the time but I will listen and I will try and give that someone that opportunity to be lead in the right path. Not everyone notices that they are trying to give good advice, some people even get mad because they think you are starting to lead them in the wrong path and so on but really your their for them and you want them to be happy and have a wonderful life. Sometimes I don't know what to say or do put in a particular situation but I always give honest answers and thats what I think everyone else should do to, try their best and if it doesn't work out then it's not meant to be and thats okay because in the end everything will turn out ok.

Thursday, November 15, 2012

I'll pick you up when you fall


    Best friends are always there when you need a helping hand up, my best friend always helps me up when I need it. Everyone has someone or needs to find someone that will pick them up when they are struggling, to have someone there for them. Some people don't know if they can pick themself back up and friends make it possible, they show you that there is a reason to keep going and for that everyone should be greatful. They are there for you through thick and thin and that means the world, sometimes they don't know what to do, or say and the best thing for you to do is to just be there, people don't expect you to have the answers, no one does. You've led them in the right direction and that is the best thing you can do for your friend. People often think that the reason someone has fallen is their fault, if they did something different or said something different it would've changed everything. I don't believe this, people fall because they don't know what to do it is no ones fault, yes the person may have been struggling with some issues with either their boyfriend/girlfriend, family, school, bullys etc. But that does not mean that it is your fault.
    They make it possible to trust people knowing that they care about you and not being afraid of peoples reaction. The best thing for someone who is falling is to be there when they need to talk. Some people shut down when they need someone there the most, people are not a mind reader so you shouldn't feel bad when they tell you how their night was that morning, they may be afraid to show their feelings because they may feel weak, insecure, helpless of the situation, or just afraid. I love the people who have and will always be there for me, and they know that I will always be there for them when they need it to <3